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How Registered Nurses Can Balance Work and School Like Superheroes

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A registered nurse’s daily schedule is not easy, and now you want to head back to school? How on earth are you going to manage?   Balancing nursing school with work and family is a big commitment. You’ll have to find the time to attend...

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A registered nurse’s daily schedule is not easy, and now you want to head back to school? How on earth are you going to manage?

 

Balancing nursing school with work and family is a big commitment. You’ll have to find the time to attend classes, do your research, submit assignments, and stay focused on your work. Before you think this is a task that only a select few superheroes can achieve, know that many women before you have come out on the other side. You just need the right tools in hand.

 

Let’s have a look at how you can better manage your work, school, and home lives as a working nurse.

 

1. Communicate With Your Family and Work

Communicating with your family about your desire to go back to school is very important, especially in the early stages. You’ll need to make it clear to your partner what going back to school will mean to you so that you two can figure out a way to re-evaluate your responsibilities, and you’ll have time to concentrate on your studies.

Let the kids know to expect some changes in the house as well. If they are older, they can take on more responsibilities to help lessen the load. Consider assigning daily chores and tasks and keeping them all in a central place. This is a great time to structure personal responsibility, and help outsource to-do’s around the house while you adjust to your new schedule.

Finally, it could be beneficial to let your workplace know about your schedule changes and updates. Your job may be able to assist you financially with your return to school.

 

2. Understand Your Peak Study Periods

There are certain times of the day where you’re simply more productive. It may be in the early hours of the morning before the kids wake up, or late at night while everyone’s asleep and it’s super quiet.

Once you understand your circadian rhythm, you’ll be able to use it to your advantage. Schedule your studying times around this time so that you get the most out of your sessions.

 

3. Consider a Support System

Of course, you can always turn to close family and friends to give you that motivational speech you may need when you feel like giving up, but consider a support system from people who know exactly what you’re going through – your classmates.

You may be surprised to find out that there are plenty of other mothers in your class. Make friends. Share tips and even share babysitting recommendations.

Knowing that you’re not alone and there are plenty of other mothers out there in similar shoes who can help to give you that boost you need from time to time.

 

4. Look into Part-time Programs

If you’re a registered nurse and have a family, you are more than likely already spread thin. Adding school work to this equation is, without a doubt, not going to be easy.

One option you should definitely consider is part-time programs. Although they may take a little longer to complete, it might be what you need to keep sane as less of your time will be required each week. This is the principle of many online schools today—including one of the most popular, University of Phoenix. 

 

In the Back to School Divas Facebook group, we’ve got members from around the country who are working mothers going back to school. We asked for their tips to help you power through:

LaTonya Grant said, “I work at the states mental health inpatient hospital…Stress is an understatement…I work two 16 hour shifts and one 8 hour each week…Plus school…Praying…Relaxing…And exercising helps me with my stress.”

Chanda Delia Wilson added “I worked as a contract nurse through the state and federal. I did this so I can make my own schedule.”

Bottom line: you’re not alone.

 

To get even further, and stay organized in the process, be sure to download the free Back to School Divas planner. This free resource includes templates for goal setting schedules, meal planning, grocery lists, and more.

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Am I Too Old to go to Grad School?

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There are so many myths about grad school that many of us have heard.   There’s the one about how, you should only consider going if you’ll be at a top school otherwise, it’s not going to be worth it (This is a lie).   The...

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There are so many myths about grad school that many of us have heard.

 

There’s the one about how, you should only consider going if you’ll be at a top school otherwise, it’s not going to be worth it (This is a lie).

 

There’s also the myth about how you can only get in with a 4.0 GPA (This is another lie).

 

But the one that really gets under my skin is the myth that grad school is only for the young.

 

This particular myth gets under my skin because it couldn’t be further from the truth. In fact, statistics show that the average grad school student is actually 33 years old and the number of students who are 35 years and above is on the rise each year.

 

So if you’ve been thinking about going to grad school but are a bit hesitant because you’re in your thirties or older – I’m here to tell you that now is the time to finally pursue those goals.

 

Of course, there are a few things to keep in mind if you’re trying to get into a grad school program.

 

1. Your GRE Scores Are Very Important for Grad School Applications

You’re most likely aware that having a good score on your Graduate Record Exam (GRE) is important for any graduate school application. When you’re a little older, these scores can be even more important because they indicate your ability to handle the program you’re interested in.

 

2. Get Organized & Gain A College Mindset

 

So, getting into grad school is great and all – but it’s not going to be easy. You’re going to have to reach deep within to realize your goals. One thing you’ll need to start doing is getting organized.

 

There’ll be classes to attend and research to do, on top of all the day-to-day tasks you have as an adult returning to school. So, make sure that you create a schedule that involves meal prepping, study time, assignments or researching time.

 

If you want to get organized today, be sure to download the FREE Back to School Divas Planner. You’ll get access to weekly plans, goal sheets, meal planning sheets, and much more.

 

You may also need to reach out to your significant other or close family and friends for extra help if you have small kids. Set aside specific time over the weekend to get all your studying done. Whatever the plan is, communicate your needs to your loved ones and don’t be afraid to ask for help.

 

 3. Draw From Your Life Experiences in the Classroom

I’m a firm believer in working with what you’ve got. Can you think of one thing that could give you an edge over your younger fellow peers? Your life experiences. The fact that you’ve lived, have worked, and have life experience always comes in handy when in grad school.

 

Your new college professors will enjoy engaging with someone who can draw from their real life experiences. You can add value to the class discussions. So start viewing your age as an asset you can draw from, Diva!

 

Going to grad school may have been a dream of yours when you were younger. Maybe you started to slowly let go of this dream because of that annoying perception that graduate school is only for young people.

 

Well, that’s not true. You’re never too young or too old for school. As long as you feel that your career can benefit from you furthering your studies, go for it Diva! You have nothing to lose and infinite opportunities to gain.

 

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50 Scholarships You Can Apply For Today

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Heading to college and this is an exciting adventure. Further your studies, take steps towards your career aspirations, and be in a supportive environment that wants to impart valuable knowledge and skills onto you. Along with that, comes the fact...

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Heading to college and this is an exciting adventure. Further your studies, take steps towards your career aspirations, and be in a supportive environment that wants to impart valuable knowledge and skills onto you.

Along with that, comes the fact that lots of money will be needed. Oh yeah, college tuition is the most it’s ever been. But luckily for you, there are plenty of organizations and institutions that offer students the financial aid they need. Even your job can contribute to the cost of college tuition.

As opposed to a student loan that will have you in debt before you even begin your career, scholarships offer to fund to students without requiring them to pay it back.

We’ve compiled a mega list of scholarships from different fields that could be just what you’re looking for. Take some time to read through the requirements and remember to apply as soon as you can.

 

1. Samuel Fletcher Tapman ASCE Student Chapter Scholarship

Amount: Varies

Deadline: February 10, 2019

This is a scholarship for civil engineering students, and it’s offered by ASCE (American Society of Civil Engineers). You’ll need to be a student at an ABET-accredited program in the civil engineering field or related program.

You’ll also need to submit this application form by February 10

 

2. “Inspire Our Future” Scholarship

Amount: $500

Deadline: April 01, 2019

Teacher.org offers this scholarship to students looking to further their studies in the education field. You’ll also need a minimum of 3.5 GPA to qualify.

 

3. AACCI Undergraduate Scholarship Program

Amount: $1,000

Deadline: May 25, 2019

If you’re interested in the field of grain-based food science and technology, this might be the perfect scholarship for you. You must be an AACCI member to qualify. You’ll also need to be an advanced undergraduate (senior year student). Visit their site for further information on application requirements.

 

4. ABA Member Scholarships

Amount: $2,500

Deadline: April 01, 2019

If you’re a member of the American Bus Association or you’re a child of a parent who works there, you can qualify for this scholarship. Application requirements include having a minimum GPA of 3.0 on a 4.0 scale, as well as studying in tourism, travel or transportation-related program.

 

5. Accounting & Financial Women’s Alliance Scholarship – Bellevue Chapter

Amount: $3,000

Deadline: February 05, 2019

If you’re trying to pursue your studies in the accounting and finance field, then applying for this scholarship may be what you need. Check out these details for specific application requirements.

 

6. Adult Students in Scholastic Transition (ASIST) Scholarship Program

Amount: $10,000

Deadline: March 31, 2019

As the name suggests, this scholarship is open to adults who are furthering their studies. There’s a specific focus on adults with physical, economic, or social challenges. There are only 13 scholarships available so visit their site asap to apply.

 

7. Greater St. Louis Mothers of Twins Club Mary Joan Wolf Memorial Scholarship

Amount: $1,000

Deadline: February 17, 2019

If you’re a mom of multiples and are in the St. Louis area, this might be the scholarship for you.Visit their website to get more info on requirements and how to apply.

 

8. AAUW Educational Foundation International Fellowships

Amount: $30,000

Deadline: November 15, 2019

If you’re not a U.S citizen or permanent resident, you’ll want to consider this scholarship from the AAUW seriously. Preference is given to women who have demonstrated commitments to the advancement of women in their professional work or community.

 

9. Michael S. and Jeffrey C. Hagler Scholarship Fund

Amount: Varies

Deadline: April 1, 2019

This particular scholarship is for students enrolling at Boise State University or College of Western Idaho. You need to be 24 years or older to apply and also be seeking to obtain a degree or certificate from the mentioned colleges. Preference is also given to students who have financial needs. Contact the scholarship committee –edavis@idcomfdn.org or give them a call at 208-342-3535.

 

10. Kentucky Colonel’s Better Life Scholarship

Amount: $2,500

Deadline: March 1, 2019

Kentucky residents are invited to apply for this scholarship. Some of the requirements include being a single parent to a minor child or children 12 years or under, demonstrating financial need, and having a good academic record. Their website has more information on the application process and requirements.

 

11. AAUW Lew Williams Scholarship and Leila Sulkes Scholarship

Amount: $2,000

Deadline: July 31, 2019

The Lew Williams Scholarships and Leila Sulkes Scholarship applies to students who reside in the following counties: Colts Neck, Farmingdale, Freehold Township, Manalapan, Morganville, Englishtown, Freehold Borough, Howell, and Marlboro. You’ll need to be at least 25 years old and have a minimum GPA of 3.0 to be considered. Contact Susan Hughes from the Scholarship Committee at freeholdaauwscholarships@gmail.com or hop onto their website for more details.

 

12. (ISC)² Women in Information Security Scholarship

Amount: $1,000 – $6,000

Deadline: April 15, 2019

Information Security is a growing field with a lack of women, and this scholarship is aimed at trying to encourage more female participation in the field. If you’re pursuing a career in information assurance, cybersecurity, or related field and have a minimum GPA of 3.3, then this scholarship may be for you. Each successful applicant will be awarded a scholarship worth $1,000 to $6,000.  You can apply on this web page.

 

13.  AFWM Ford Empowering America Scholarship

Amount: $3,000

Deadline: May 1, 2019

The Alliance for Women in Media (AFWM) foundation provide women with scholarships to help further their studies. Applicants will need to upload videos profiling influential or inspirational women in their communities. You can contact the scholarship committee on info@allwomeninmedia.org or check out their website for more information.

 

14. AMWA Medical Education Scholarships

Amount: $500

Deadline: Varies

The American Medical Women’s Association (AMWA) founded this scholarship for women who are pursuing careers in the medical field. You’ll need to have a letter of recommendation as well as submit an essay when applying. Check out their site for more details.

 

15. Patsy Takemoto Mink Foundation Scholarship

Amount: $5,000

Deadline: August 1, 2019

This scholarship by Congresswoman Mink aims to give financial support to low-income mothers with minor children. You’ll need to be pursuing a technical/vocational degree, an associate’s degree, a first bachelor’s degree or a professional/master’s/doctoral degree. Check out their website for more info on requirements.

 

16. LouEllen Dabbs Scholarship

Amount: $750

Deadline: March 21, 2019

The LouEllen Dabbs Scholarship is specifically for students who are pursuing a business, finance, or banking career. This scholarship is also for single parents and you’ll need to have at least a 2.35 GPA to be considered. Please visit their website if you’re pursuing a career in the mentioned fields to get more information.

 

17. AAUW Reading Branch Graduate Scholarship

Amount: $2,000

Deadline: May 30, 2019

Berks County women have the opportunity to apply annually for this scholarship. Applicants with a demonstrated financial need and great academic records are the focus for the scholarship. You can check out their website for more details about requirements and application processes.

 

18. Abby’s Closet Dreams Can Come True Scholarship

Amount: $1,000

Deadline: February 22, 2019

The Abby’s Closet Dreams Can Come True Scholarship encourages applicants to tell the foundation about their dreams and aspirations for their future. The successful applicant will be awarded $1,000 to use towards their tuition fees and be awarded their perfect gown and accessories for their day. Be sure to check out their site to see what the foundation embodies, to have that in mind when crafting your application essay.

 

19. Association of Women Contractors Scholarship

Amount: $2,000

Deadline: April 30, 2019

You’ll need to be a resident of Minnesota to apply for this scholarship. The Association of Women Contractors Scholarship is aimed at providing women who are pursuing construction-related careers financial aid. Requirements also involve either entering or currently being a construction trade apprentice. Their website has further details on the requirements for this scholarship. You can also contact Grace Dahlquist from the scholarship committee via email on grace@awcmn.org.

 

20. Frances M. Dunn Memorial Scholarship

Amount: $500 Minimum

Deadline: Varies

The children of Frances M. Dunn started this scholarship that is aimed at providing financial assistance to single mothers in the IS program. Applicants can be sophomores, juniors, or seniors, and have earned at least a 2.5 GPA. Your resume and letter of application is needed to apply. Their website gives more information about the requirements and application process.

 

21. Marrie Ferraro Scholarship

Amount: Varies

Deadline: February 15, 2019

The Marrie Ferraro Scholarship is offered to students who have been accepted at Buffalo State. You’ll also need to be either an undergrad or a grad student to send in your application. Other requirements include being a full-time student, having a minimum GPA of 3.25 and being a single parent. For more information, you can contact the scholarship committee on finaid@buffalostate.edu.

 

22. B.A. Rudolph Foundation Undergraduate Public Service Scholarship

Amount: $4,800

Deadline: April 11, 2019

If you have applied for or have already received a summer internship in Washington, D.C. you can approach the scholarship committee of the B.A. Rudolph Foundation Undergraduate Public Service Scholarship for financial aid. Requirements include demonstrating financial need. Successful applicants are assigned mentors to help guide them as they pursue their career in Washington. Check out their website for the online form and other requirements.

 

23. Distinguished Young Women Scholarship Program

Amount: Varies

Deadline: Varies

This particular scholarship program is available in two ways: cash tuition scholarships and college-granted scholarships. The cash scholarships can be used for tuition, books, as well as other education expenses. The college-granted scholarships works with over 100 universities and colleges across the U.S. See their website for more details on how to apply.

 

24. ESA Foundation Scholarship Program

Amount: $3,000

Deadline: May 4, 2019

Up to 30 scholarships of $3,000 each are awarded annually through the ESA Foundation Scholarship Program. Preference is given to female minority students. You’ll need a minimum 2.75 GPA and also be a U.S. citizen. Check out their website for more details on application process and requirements.

 

25. Ann and Peter Ziegler Scholarship

Amount: Varies

Deadline: Varies

If you’re a woman in the Liberal Arts, this may just be your ideal scholarship. Ann and Peter Ziegler established this scholarship through the CNM Foundation. You’ll need to have a minimum of 3.0 GPA and also be a single parent to qualify. Please visit the CNM site for more information on additional requirements and on how to apply.

 

26. Oakland University Critical Difference Scholarship

Amount: Varies

Deadline: Varies

If you’ve enrolled for an undergraduate degree program at Oakland University, there are quite a number of financial aid streams that are available for students in need of funding. This particular scholarship requires students to be single and the heads of their households. A GPA of 2.5 and above is required and you can apply if you’re a full-time or part-time student. Check out their website for more details on application processes and additional requirements.

 

27. Helen Holt Mollohan Scholarship

Amount: $1,000

Deadline: February 28, 2019

To all the West Virginia readers out there, this is a scholarship specifically for you. The Helen Holt Mollohan Scholarship is awarded to female students who are currently attending or planning to go to Glenville State College. Contact Leah Ellyson for more information at infor@mollohanfoundation.org, or you can just turn to their website for all the details.

 

28. Total Scholarships for Women

Amount: $10,000

Deadline: March 31, 2019

Five future female leaders will each be awarded a $10,000 scholarship from Toptal Scholarships for Women. The female applicants must want to change the world. You’ll need to first articulate your plan on how you think you can change the world, and then specify the mentorship that would be needed to help you achieve these goals. This application is made via your personal blog – you’ll need to publish a 1,000-word blog post on the topic. For more details and requirements, please visit their website.

 

29. Jeannette Rankin Women’s Scholarship Fund

Amount: $2,000

Deadline: March 18, 2019

This scholarship fund is particularly for women who are 35 years and older. You’ll need to be classified as low-income and be pursuing technical or vocational education, as well as an associate’s or first bachelor’s degree. Another requirement is for applicants to be either U.S. citizens or permanent residents. For more info, check out their website.

 

30. Arkansas Single Parent Scholarship Fund

Amount: Varies

Deadline: Varies

Single parents living in Arkansas can apply for this scholarship fund. Applicants need to be considered economically disadvantaged and have children who are still minors. The amounts and deadlines vary, depending on the county. Visit their website to apply, as per your county.

 

31. The Silver Shield Foundation

Amount: Varies

Deadline: Varies

This particular foundation is specifically aimed at children of firefighters and police officers who lost their lives while on duty. The foundation is aimed at helping their surviving children further their studies and they assist in prep school, college and university tuition fees. Each scholarship is specific to the family and their needs so if this applies to you, you can check out their website for more details or contact their scholarship committee via email on moreinfo@silvershieldfoundation.org.

 

32. Leslie Andree Hanna Medical Scholarship

Amount: $5,000

Deadline: February 10, 2019

U.S. female students who are attending medical school are eligible for the Leslie Andree Hanna Medical Scholarship. You’ll need a minimum of a 3.25 GPA. There are quite a number of scholarships on the scholarship provider’s website so if you’re pursuing a career in the medical field, be sure to check them all out.

 

33. Women in Technology Scholarship (WITS)

Amount: $2,500

Deadline: April 1, 2019

This scholarship is sponsored by Visionary Integration Professionals (VIPs) and is aimed at providing women who have interests in pursuing technology-related fields the financial aid to be able to do so. This is annually available to women across the U.S. and you’ll need a minimum of 3.0 GPA to qualify. Check out this page for more details.

 

34. NDSGC Pearl I. Young Scholarship

Amount: Varies

Deadline: March 1, 2019

This scholarship is aimed at providing female U.S. citizens who would like to pursue a career in STEM (Science, Technology, Engineering, or Mathematics) field, financial aid. You’ll need to a minimum 3.5 GPA and be studying at the University of North Dakota. Preference is given to students who are involved in a research project related to NASA. Check out their website for more details on the application process.

 

35. Bernice Murray Scholarship

Amount: $2,000

Deadline: March 16, 2019

Residents from Vermont are welcomed to apply for this scholarship. It was established to honor Bernice Murray’s service to communities in Vermont. Applicants need to demonstrate financial need to qualify and also be a single parent with primary custody to a child or children who are 12 years or under. Have a look at this page for more information and to send in your application.

 

36. Adobe Research Women in Technology Scholarship

Amount: $10,000

Deadline: October 31, 2019

As the name suggests, this scholarship is for women who are pursuing careers in the technology field. You’ll need to currently be an undergrad or master’s student at a university, have a strong academic record, and there’s also an option of a video upload that speaks on your dream career. The Adobe Research website has further details on this scholarship.

 

37. SWSIS Scholarships for Women Studying Information Security

Amount: $10,000

Deadline: Varies

This scholarship is awarded to women who are studying for their bachelor’s or master’s degrees in any fields that are related to information security. You’ll need to be a U.S. citizen or permanent resident to apply, and also be either enrolled or accepted at a U.S. University. Their site has more details on the application process so be sure to check it out.

 

38. Women Lead Scholarship

Amount: $3,000

Deadline: April 30, 2019

Two educational scholarships are awarded annually through the Women Lead Scholarship. You’ll need to be a Christian woman and seeking a graduate degree that will prepare you to serve your community and the Christian faith. Women of Christian faith from diverse backgrounds are encouraged to apply. You can check out this online page for more details on the application process and requirements.

 

39. Top Products Single Mothers Scholarship

Amount: $1,000

Deadline: August 31, 2019

Single mothers who seek to further studies can apply to this scholarship. You’ll need to write a motivational essay that describes you, your family, and what education means to you. Contact Scott Smith of the scholarship committee at  scott@topproducts.com or you can just check out their website for more details.

 

40. Bruce and Marjorie Sundlun Scholarship

Amount: $1,500

Deadline: May 10, 2019

Rhode Island residents can apply for the Bruce and Marjorie Sundlum Scholarship. Applications need to be from low-income households, be single parents, and preference is also given to applicants who have been incarcerated or have received state aid. For more information, visit the Rhode Island Foundation site.

 

41. ACLS Medical School Scholarship

Amount: $2,500

Deadline: November 30, 2019

This scholarship’s deadline is still a little far but you can still check out their website for more details. Applicants must be currently enrolled at medical school, dental school, or nursing school and unlike with many of the scholarships on this list, you won’t need to demonstrate financial need. The application process involves uploading a 30 – 45 seconds video onto YouTube that explains how you would improve mental health awareness.

 

42. CSF Fiesta Queen Scholarship and Pageant

Amount: $2,500

Deadline: May 3, 2019

Colorado women between the ages of 18 and 22 who have a minimum GPA of 3.0 are encouraged to apply for this scholarship fund. It is particularly aimed at providing Hispanic women financial aid. The winner of the pageant will be awarded the prize money that will be put towards them furthering their studies. Their site has more details on the pageant and the scholarship-related prize.

 

43. Empower Her Scholarship

Amount: $1,000

Deadline: April 1, 2019

Female undergrad or grad students who are either mothers or currently pregnant can apply for this scholarship. You’ll also need to be a student at a college in Lincoln and have a minimum of 6 credit hours. You can contact Alexa Krings via email on pregnant.parenting.scholarships@gmail.com or check out their website for more details.

 

44. Future Global Leaders Scholarship

Amount: $1,500

Deadline: Varies

The Future Global Leaders Scholarship is awarded to students who are enrolled at an accredited U.S. College or University. You’ll need to write a 3-5 page essay on a chosen topic and this scholarship is aimed at providing women who have interest in International Trade and Global Development financial aid. Check out their website for more details.   

 

45. BYU Marriott School Single Parent Scholarships

Amount: Varies

Deadline: March 1, 2019

If you’re officially admitted to one of the programs in the Marriott School, then you can take advantage of this financial aid program. This scholarship is specifically designed for single parents who have the physical custody of their minor child or children. A good academic record as well as being a full-time undergrad student, are also essential requirements for qualifying. For any queries, contact their scholarship committee on marriottschool@byu.edu or simply visit their website.

 

46. ACF Rae Lee Siporin Scholarship For Women

Amount: Varies

Deadline: June 6, 2019

New Mexico female students who have completed their freshmen, sophomore, and junior years of college and would like to continue their studies, can apply for this scholarship. Preference will be given to students who can demonstrate financial need. The application process involves writing an essay on “What is your graduation plan?” Check out their website for more details.

 

47. Ahadi Women in Science Scholarship

Amount: $500

Deadline: February 28, 2019

This is an annual scholarship founded by Dr. Soudabeh Ahadi. This scholarship is aimed at providing financial assistance to women who are graduating seniors of any Monroe County high school and would like to pursue careers in the field of science. You can apply for the scholarship on the scholarship provider’s website.

 

48. Associated Women for Pepperdine (AWP) Scholarship

Amount: $5,000

Deadline: February 15, 2019

This is the largest as well as the most active women’s group that supports South Carolina colleges and universities. Application requirements include being an active member of a Church of Christ congregation. The application is available on the scholarship provider’s website.

 

49. Automotive Women’s Alliance Foundation Education Scholarship

Amount: $2,500

Deadline: Varies

Women who are studying a program in the automotive field are encouraged to apply for this scholarship. You’ll need a minimum of a 3.0 GPA and be a citizen within North America. These scholarships are awarded quarterly to women who have demonstrated a passion for the automotive industry. Check out their site for further details.

 

50. Downer-Bennet Scholarship

Amount: $1,000

Deadline: March 1, 2019

The Downer-Bennet Scholarship for single parents is one of the scholarships administered by The University of New Mexico each year. Their site has more information about the scholarship but to qualify, you’ll need to be a continuing undergrad student at the main UNM campus, have a competitive cumulative UNM GPA, as well as have earned a total of 12 UNM Main campus credits by the end of fall.

There are plenty of other scholarships and grants that will help you achieve your educational goals. Whether you’re a single mom, a working mom, or just a woman wanting to further her studies finally, there are plenty of organizations that would love to assist you along your journey. Check out more scholarships specifically for moms and consider some of these scholarships for women.

 

 

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Is the University of Phoenix Right for You: Pros & Cons

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Earning your degree as a working mom or wife has never been easier. Don’t get me wrong, you’re still going to need to put in a whole lot of time and energy into earning that degree, but a little thing called “technology” has made the process ...

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Earning your degree as a working mom or wife has never been easier. Don’t get me wrong, you’re still going to need to put in a whole lot of time and energy into earning that degree, but a little thing called “technology” has made the process so much more achievable.

 

Online classes have been a great savior for many working moms and one of the best institutions to offer a variety of online programs is the University of Phoenix.

 

University of Phoenix is the largest private University in the United States. Students can apply for any of its many online programs or simply do things the old-fashioned way by attending classes at select campus locations. Since you’re a working mom with tons on your to-do list, you’re probably leaning more towards the earlier option.

 

What Programs are Available?

The University of Phoenix offers students a variety of courses at the associate, bachelor’s, and master’s degree level. Check out their degree programs if your career aspirations are in any of the following fields.

 

  • Business & Management
  • Teacher Education
  • Social Science
  • Information Technology
  • Accounting & Finance

 

Before settling on the institution, you want to weigh up your pros and cons.

 

 

Pros of Attending The University of Phoenix

 

The Convenience Factor

Online programs make it possible to keep up with all your personal commitments. If you have PTA meetings on Fridays, work presentations on Wednesdays, and your kid’s soccer matches on Thursdays, you can still attend all of these events while also furthering your studies.

You can plan ahead of time as you’ll receive all your course material, assignments, and due dates at the beginning of the course. This convenience will allow you to know when to dedicate time to studying and when you can focus on the other tasks on your long to-do list.

 

It Doesn’t Matter When You Log On

You can access your online study material at your own convenience and then, when it suits you, join the student discussion forums that will be available for your class. When you join these forums, you can leave a comment that can be read by other students or read through any of the previous discussions. All this is, of course, possible without everyone being online at the same time.

You are also able to set up appointments or phone calls with relevant faculty members as needed.

 

Tuition Guarantee

It is common knowledge that furthering your studies can be quite costly. The worst part is that tuition goes up every year … except at the University of Phoenix. They have a “tuition guarantee” that will lock your tuition from your program’s start to finish.

This means that if you take a little longer to complete your program, you won’t be affected by increasing tuition. Your tuition will be locked in the moment you register to the University.

This is a great argument to pitch your boss if you’re interested in tuition reimbursement from your employer.

 

Easily Transfer or Earn Credits

If you’re a transfer from another regionally accredited community college, you can easily transfer those credits to your degree program at the University.

If you don’t have credit, don’t worry about it. There are several avenues that you can use to earn credits.

 

Cons of Attending The University of Phoenix

 

Some Degrees Require Hands-on Programs

Not all online programs are made for every career path. For instance, if you would like to be a nurse, then you need clinical experience before you can qualify to work with patients. Because of this, The University of Phoenix gears their nursing program towards registered nurses who are interesting in furthering their studies.

 

“Team Learning” Component for Each Class

This can be both a pro and a con. learning to collaborate and work in a team will provide you with the necessary skills required to help you work better with your colleagues. But, if any of your team members are slacking, this will affect your grade.

 

Choosing to go back to school is a great step in helping you achieving your career aspirations. The University of Phoenix might just be the perfect place to get that ball rolling.

 

If you would like more information, join the Back to School Divas Facebook group! Meet real women who have attended the University and other online colleges you may be interested in.

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Ace Your Next Research Paper With These Free Search Engines

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Have you been assigned a research paper? Writing the paper is nothing short of a headache!   Having the right resources could help you through this process. Choosing the right source material can also help set your work apart from your pee...

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Have you been assigned a research paper? Writing the paper is nothing short of a headache!

 

Having the right resources could help you through this process. Choosing the right source material can also help set your work apart from your peers in terms of detail, authenticity, and unique point of view.

 

Let’s dive right in with free search engines for research paper writing that help you achieve the most out of your work.

 

Remember to join the Back to School Divas Facebook group for even more hacks from other Back to School Divas like you!

 

The Best Free Search Engines for Research Paper Writing

 

In order to access these free search engines for research paper writing, you only need an internet connection.

 

In some cases, the only other thing that you may need could be your local student email address/user ID.

 

Your personal info might be the key to help you access your university’s private search engines, which contain scholarly works and other resources for students only.

 

But the student ID is not required in all cases. For the free search engines outlined below, you won’t even need a university ID to access data to write your research paper.

 

Google Scholar

 

Google is the most popular free search engine for a reason. With specific algorithms returning relevant search results with each query, it is the Holy Grail of search engine technology.

That’s why it’s no surprise that the first name to make it on this list of free search engines for research paper writing is a sub-engine of Google.

 

We are referring to Google Scholar.

 

As a standalone service that curates academic journals, research works and other relevant contributions from academia from around the world, Google Scholar could be your one-stop solution to write your research paper under the virtual mentorship of experts from all over the world.

 

The only hiccup that you’ll experience here is an overabundance of content. Otherwise, Google Scholar has everything you need from free search engines for academic writing.

 

Microsoft Academic

 

Google and Microsift go hand-in-hand. From search engines to phone operating systems, these two entities are always head to head against each other.

 

It’s no surprise that Microsoft has its answer to Google Scholar ready in the form of Microsoft Academic.

 

Similar to what Bing is to Google search, Microsoft Academic functions in the same way as Google Scholar. It is the next best stop in free search engines.

 

The search function is a bit more cluttered than Google Scholar. However, it makes up for that flaw by providing a high number of valuable results.

 

Science.gov

 

What better database to trust for writing your science paper than one curated through experts hired by the government itself? Science.gov has all of your credibility and source issues resolved.

 

This resource includes peer-reviewed work that’s carefully selected by experts in various fields. Proven credibility makes it one of the best free search engines for academic papers in the field of science.

 

With several sources and various citations to check out, Science.gov will produce quality results. However, the selection here may not be as extensive as Google or Microsoft’s free search engines.

 

Educational Resources Information Center (ERIC)

 

The Educational Resources Information Center (ERIC) is also curated by the U.S. government and provides academic search results from all over the web.

 

The sources that the ERIC uses are highly credible. A simple search could return hundreds to thousands of high quality results for your research paper. For this reason, ERIC remains one of the best free search engines for students.

 

Get better work completed, faster with the help of a large selection of sources and results.

 

Refseek

 

Refseek starts off with a simple-looking homepage. The interface is as simple as Google, and its search results are just as extensive in their offerings.

 

Refseek is a reliable source to pull data from several credible institutions and academia at once.

 

With a web-like search that uncovers even the most obscure works on the web, Refseek is an excellent option for finding unique sources.

 

These are some of the most widely used free search engines, but the list doesn’t end here. You may also look into these helpful resources:

 

 

You are now well on your way to becoming a research whiz!

 

Join the Back To School Divas Facebook group for even more hacks!

 

If you’re interested in receiving professional help with your essays, head over to UniversityWriting911.com and learn how we can help.

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Best Planners to Organize Work, School and Life

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  Diva, when you’re a student, professional, or a stay-at-home spouse or parent, the responsibilities that you have to juggle through on a daily basis can be overwhelming. You have so much you want and need to do. Where do you start? &n...

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Diva, when you’re a student, professional, or a stay-at-home spouse or parent, the responsibilities that you have to juggle through on a daily basis can be overwhelming. You have so much you want and need to do. Where do you start?

 

Research shows us again and again the writing down your goals is the best way to achieve them. That’s why looking into some of the best planners that help you track your goals, objectives or achievements all in one place goes a long way.

Which Planner is the Best Option for You?

 

The answer to this depends upon your preference, your needs, and what you want to focus on.

 

At Back to School Divas, we want you to have all the tools you need for success. That’s why we designed an exclusive planner download pack! You can now have your very own functional, systematic planner without breaking the bank.

 

Download the official Back to School Divas planner printable for FREE! Get pages for monthly and weekly planning, goals, meal planning, grocery lists, assignment trackers and more.

 

With that being said, if you’re ready to invest in a way to get organized, here are some of the best planners that could help you achieve those goals in 2019.

 

Best Overall Professional and Student Planner: Panda Planner

 

Panda Planner is known as the professional, personal and student planner for everyone.

 

When Panda Planner’s founder, Michael Leip, struggled through multiple physical and life challenges, he identified a need to organize his life in the most optimal, simple way.

 

Over years of work, Leip has eliminated the clutter and only kept the most important organization tools within this planner. His strive for excellence makes Panda Planner one of the most well-rounded on the market.

 

Here’s what makes Panda Planner so great:

 

  • Undated, so you can buy it any time during the year and start with your organization.
  • Segmented in monthly, weekly and daily sections, so you can plan over a stretch of a few days or over a smaller period of a few hours.
  • Lots of space to write, brain dump and take notes.
  • Comes with bookmarks for additional organizational support.

 

The Panda Planner does have its shortcomings:

 

  • The ‘box’ segmentation in all planning pages may make organization seem monotonous.
  • The design is simple for those who want more character out of their planner.

 

 

Best Customizable Planner: Eric Condren LifePlanner

 

If the Panda Planner is the best overall professional, personal and student planner, then the Eric Condren LifePlanner is its equivalent in customization.

 

What sets the Eric Condren LifePlanner apart is the focus on delivering in aesthetics as much as it does in planning.

 

This planner comes in a classic coiled design with colorful pages to boot. Choose your favorite design and customize with sticker packs and more!

 

Here’s what makes the Eric Condren LifePlanner one of the top options for efficient student planners:

 

  • Weekly layouts are available in multiple options: vertical, horizontal, or even hourly.
  • In addition to undated weekly and monthly planning, this organizational tool also has separate notes pages and a dreams notes segment.
  • Colorful design includes inspiring quotes and feminine, fun color schemes,

 

LifePlanner shortcomings:

 

  • The classic coiled design could serve as either a blessing or a curse. It is easier to flip pages, but can be quite a task to handle as opposed to usual hardcover or paper bound designs.
  • Personality in colors may be overwhelming to those who like to keep their planning simple.

 

 

Best Professional Planner: Full Focus Planner

 

The Full Focus Planner by Michael Hyatt is considered to be more than a planner, designed for organization and targeted at mostly “Type A” personalities who want the utmost management out of their daily schedules.

 

The Full Focus Planner is mostly used by professionals such as business executives, including C-Level execs such as CEOs.

 

This planner uses its own terminologies, making it different from other planners out there, and has gained a cult following that sets it apart from its competition.

 

 

Here’s what makes Full Focus Planner a good choice:

 

  • Unique planning system includes detailed guides by the creator. A great option for those who like a complete management program.
  • Apart from the system, there are daily, weekly, and monthly options, as well as a section for notes.
  • Comes with multiple bookmarks for quick referencing.

 

But Full Focus Planner also carries its own little list of challenges:

 

  • The planning system can take some time to learn, which poses a disadvantage if you are already swamped with disorganization and want to get going with planning and tracking immediately.
  • Doesn’t offer much in terms of aesthetics. and appears a bit bulky.

 

 

Best Dated 2019 Planner: Passion Planner

 

Available in dated, undated and academic versions, Passion Planner can be the planner for those who want to juggle between a few responsibilities at once.

 

Passion Planner offers monthly and weekly layouts while also providing a roadmap along with to-do lists. You can plan future appointments, write the list of groceries that you want to pick up the next weekend, or track anything else you like.

 

 

What makes Passion Planner a great all-rounder:

 

  • Since it’s available in undated as well as dated formats, it can be used by those who want printed dates on their planners. The dates are also available in academic formats, perfect for students and teachers.
  • Available in multiple sizes so you can choose one that you’re comfortable carrying around.
  • Challenges section makes it easy to set and track goals.
  • Stay motivated with roadmaps, to-do list sections, quotes and monthly reflection segments.

 

But as with all the other best planners on this list, Passion Planner does have its shortcomings.

 

  • If you get the dated version, your planner has an expiration date on it.
  • Little space to take notes or jot down to-dos, especially in the weekly layouts.

 

If you’re interested in a totally customizable planning system, check out our post on the totally Pinterest-worthy bullet journal system.

 

Remember, you can launch your 2019 strategy for FREE right now when you download the official Back to School Divas planner printable!

 

How are you keeping track of your goals this year?

The Ultimate Side Hustle Guide: How to Start Earning Extra Money

Are you looking to start a side hustle? Trying to earn extra money? Having a side hustle has become quite common in recent years. More than 44 million Americans were reported to...

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Are you looking to start a side hustle? Trying to earn extra money? Having a side hustle has become quite common in recent years. More than 44 million Americans were reported to have a side hustle in 2017.

 

Why Start a Side Hustle?

There are many great benefits to having a side hustle:

  • Financial freedom
  • Possible future self-employment
  • Financial flexibility
  • Opportunity to choose your own work schedule

 

Although many people are trying to earn extra money, not everyone is succeeding at it. Having a 9 to 5 while also running your side hustle is no small feat. However, if you’ve set a resolution to earn more money in 2019, the key to success is choosing your side hustle wisely.

 

Choose the Right Side Hustle

Your side hustle is going to be what you’ll be spending most of your free time on, so choosing the right one will ensure that you’re not only successful, but also enjoy working on it. Having a hard look at the skills and expertise you already have can help you decide on the perfect side hustle for you.

 

Some highly marketable skills include:

  • writing, drawing, photography
  • graphic design, UI/UX
  • project management
  • virtual assisting/online support
  • crafting and artistry, handmade gifts
  • tech software and programming
  • tutoring, childcare
  • baking, meal prep

 

Beyond just looking at what you can already do, also consider what you’re passionate about. For instance, if you’re great with babies and can see yourself working with them, then maybe being a newborn photographer is something you can consider. You don’t necessarily have to already have the photography and lighting skills as those can be learned, but if you’re really passionate about it, you’ll be able to give this hustle the time and energy it will demand from you.

 

Find Your USP

Whether you’re selling a product or service, chances are, you’re competing with other, well-established businesses. Your Unique Selling Point (USP) is what sets you apart from your competitors. This is what’s going to make your target audience choose you over them.

 

After you’ve identified what side hustle you’d like to do, you can then identify what the gap in the market is and how you can fill it. Do other newborn photographers require families to travel to a studio? You can offer in-home sessions to keep baby comfortable.

 

Consider your potential clients’ needs and wants and see how you can meet them. Identifying your USP early on will help you be clear on how to advertise your business to your ideal clients.

 

Set Achievable Goals

While it’s great to dream big, your side hustle is unlikely to be an overnight success. You’re going to need to put in a lot of time and energy into it before you begin to reap the huge rewards that you’re after.

 

In the meantime, you should set S.M.A.R.T (Specific Measurable Achievable Relevant and Time-bound) goals that will help you stay motivated and striving for more. Set monthly, weekly and even daily goals that are practical and will help you get closer and closer to your dreams.

 

When setting these goals, consider how much time you can realistically dedicate to your new side hustle. For instance, if your side hustle is freelance writing and you need around 2 hours to complete one writing project, aiming to write 10 pieces a week while also working full-time is going to be something very difficult to maintain over time. In this area, time management skills will be critical to your success.

 

What Side Hustle Will You Choose?

Starting a side hustle while you have a full-time job is one of the best ways to ensure that you start working towards your dreams and aspirations while also having the financial security of your job. The best time to start the side hustle you’ve been dreaming about is today!

 

Make sure that you join the Back to School Divas Facebook Group to get more exciting tips and learn from others who have started successful side hustles while working and attending college!

 

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How to Set Resolutions For School, Work & Family That Stick: Make 2019 Your Year!

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We all want to set resolutions and kick butt when the new year comes around. The end of the year is a time when most of us reflect on what we've accomplished, and start to think about what we’d like to achieve in the following year.   Se...

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We all want to set resolutions and kick butt when the new year comes around. The end of the year is a time when most of us reflect on what we’ve accomplished, and start to think about what we’d like to achieve in the following year.

 

Setting New Year’s resolutions is something human beings have been doing for over four thousand years! Although we’ve been doing it for a while, it doesn’t mean we’ve managed to get the hang of it.

 

How many times have you set the resolution of eating healthier in the new year and a month or two later, found yourself at the nearest fast food restaurant after work? How many times have you promised yourself to start that side hustle you’ve been dreaming about, only to get to the end of the year with no progress made?

 

The truth is, setting resolutions that stick doesn’t come naturally to many people. In fact, most people need a little help. If you’re tired of not accomplishing your new year’s resolutions and want to finally set resolutions that stick, you’ve come to the right page.

 

Start by Setting Small, Achievable Goals

Setting small, achievable goals will help to ensure that you reach your target and stay motivated to keep going. For instance, if you’d like to get fit, aim for 3 to 4 gym sessions a week. For an unfit person who hardly goes to the gym, this is much more achievable than aiming to the gym 6 to 7 days a week.

 

Share your 2019 Goals with Others

Speaking to your close family and friends about your resolutions will help to keep you motivated and focused because you won’t want to let them down. If you’re planning on quitting smoking, joining a support group can help you be around others who are going through similar struggles and help give you the strength that you’ll need to keep going.

 

Be open to sharing your resolutions as you never know where you can find strength that will motivate you to strive harder.

 

Take it One Day at a Time

You’re not going to achieve your resolutions overnight. Remember that whatever unhealthy habit you’re trying to kick developed over a long period of time and being patient with yourself is the only way you’re going to change it.

 

For instance, if you’re trying to eat healthier, you can start by aiming to drink more water, instead of cutting out all the unhealthy foods from your diet in one go. Once you’re comfortable with drinking lots of water daily, you can then start by cutting out unhealthy carbs and replacing them with whole grains, for example.

 

You can aim to cut out one unhealthy habit per month or per week and slowly, you’ll begin to develop that healthier lifestyle you’ve always wanted.

 

Reward Yourself

Giving yourself small rewards is a great way to encourage yourself to keep going, especially during the difficult days. Your rewards don’t have to be grand at all, they just need to be small things that will put a smile on your face as you reach your milestones. Reward yourself with a trip to the movies, going to a comedy special, or just a simple massage or bubble bath when you’ve achieved what you want.

 

There is no better time to start setting your new year’s resolutions than right now. Sit and think about them carefully. Decide on what you really want to achieve in the new year and then apply the above.

 

Want to learn even more tips and tricks on becoming your best self on your back to school journey and beyond? Join our email list and become a member of our Back to School Divas Facebook group!

 

 

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Gift Guide for Moms Going Back to School

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Searching for the perfect gift for mom going back to school? We put together a few of our favorite options into our first-ever gift guide for moms going back to school to resume pursuing their academic dreams.   While the list may not incl...

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Searching for the perfect gift for mom going back to school? We put together a few of our favorite options into our first-ever gift guide for moms going back to school to resume pursuing their academic dreams.

 

While the list may not include a whole village or breakfast with giraffes (looking at you Goop), it does have a selection of gifts for moms going back to school.

 

Let’s dive right into the gift guide!

 

Canon PIXMA MX490 Wireless Office All-in-One Inkjet Printer/Copier/Scanner/Fax Machine

 

Reliable, multipurpose and affordable. These three traits best define the Canon PIXMA MX490. This affordable, multipurpose printer combo is the perfect addition to this gift guide for busy moms going back to school.

 

Whether they have to print out quick assignments for themselves or their kids, or if their goal is to print out grocery lists, budget sheets, and electronic receipts, this powerhouse of a printer would be able to serve those needs.

 

The best part is that it doesn’t break the bank at $55. Practical and effective, it is easily one of the best gifts for moms who’d appreciate functionality and ease of use. Do them a favor and save them a lot of trips to the local store or the library for pricey prints!

 

YOREPEK Water Resistant Backpack with USB Charging Port

 

Moms transitioning back to student life need a few back-to-school staples to start their schooling in the right way.

 

A backpack is one of those staples.

 

Having a large backpack goes a long way to hold notebooks, laptops, and a few snacks andstaples for their kids while they juggle their own school and kids needs every day.

 

This YORPEK Water Resistant Backpacknot only fulfills those requirements but also comes with an additional set of handy features: a water-resistant design helps moms steer clear of unwanted spills, and a USB charging port ensures their devices do not run out of juice during their hectic day.

 

With a variety of both bright and muted colors to choose from, the bag is originally available at $50.99.

 

Robrasim Leather Journal/Refillable Travelers Notebook

 

With an old-school notebook, moms can focus on the task of writing and studying. Some research even suggests that writing things down in an analog style promotes better retention (perfect for long study sessions before a test!)

 

The Refillable Traveler’s Notebook by Robrasimdoes not only serve that purpose but does so beautifully while being clad in a luxurious, handmade leather finish.  It comes with the feature of being refillable, so if it runs out of paper, it can be replaced very easily without having to do away with the whole journal.

 

The journal fits inside most bags easily, which also makes it easy to carry. At $18.95, it is nothing short of a bargain.

 

Beats PowerBeats 3 Wireless Headphones – Neighborhood Collection

 

There are only a few things out there that could help motivate people during work or study as much as music. This benefit is especially crucial for moms who have to focus on doing their work as fast as possible during the limited time they have.

 

A nice pair of headphones can bring the beauty of music to a busy mom. The Beats PowerBeats 3 Wireless Headphonesare the perfect gift choice for just that purpose.

 

Available in a variety of colors, these wireless headphones are a sturdy build and provide amazing sound quality. What makes them one of the great gifts for moms are their ability to be charged for only 5 minutes for one hour of playback. When fully charged, they can run for up to 12 hours.

 

As if these qualities were not enough, the headphones are also sweat and water resistant, so moms can count on them to be as tough as them. At a discounted price of $99.99, these headphones are perfect for those who appreciate their music.

 

Zimtown Nature Bamboo Folding Lapdesk

 

The Zimtown Nature Bamboo Folding Lapdeskturns any bed or chair into a productive yet comfortable desk setup. It’s the perfect present for a mom who also has to study every day.

 

With an adjustable elevated platform for the laptop and a side space to keep their phone, this lap desk makes for a fantastic stand that could help a mom work right from their safe space.

 

At $24.98, it is available for practically nothing as compared to what it brings to the table (pun intended).

 

Find Even More Ideas About Gifts for Moms

 

With all of these presents in the gift guide, you can make life easier for many moms out there who value comfort and productivity throughout their day.

 

Share this list with your friends on Facebook and help them find great gifts for moms going back to school!

 

To learn more managing the holidays as a mom going back to school, join the BackToSchoolDivas community today.

 

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How To Juggle Family, Friends and School With Holiday Priorities

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Having holiday cheer is always one of your holiday priorities, but how many times does the stress of the season leave you feeling than "in the spirit?"   Rather than stressing about all the things you have to do, spend time this holiday se...

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Having holiday cheer is always one of your holiday priorities, but how many times does the stress of the season leave you feeling than “in the spirit?”

 

Rather than stressing about all the things you have to do, spend time this holiday season doing things you care about with people you love (and still get things done!)

 

Here are some of our best tips for juggling family, friends and school with your holiday priorities.

 

Set Priorities.

Do your best to remain focused on your end goals. Make a list of what matters most to you (family, travel, earning a 4.0 GPA, health & fitness) and keep it handy when you have to choose whether or not to add another holiday cocktail party to your holiday priorities agenda. 

 

Ask For Help.

The American Psychological Association noted in a poll that 25% of Americans reported being “extremely stressed” during the holidays. 69% of those participants noted a “lack of time” as being the culprit. Help curb stress by asking for help when you need it. Stressing over hosting the annual holiday party? Ask a friend or two to help decorate or bring food. Struggling with your workload? Ask a coworker to help cover some of your projects. Make your mental health one of your holiday priorities by asking for help when you need it.

 

Be Proactive.

Life’s full of craziness (like unexpected overnight guests), but when it comes to things like deadlines, appointments, and expectations, think ahead. Don’t let small things turn into big, scary stuff due to procrastination.

 

Get Enough Sleep.

“Easier said than done,” you might think. When there’s family, friends, and plenty of eggnog involved, it’s easy to start feeling like you’re running on empty by the time real life strikes. Make rest one of your holiday priorities by setting a bedtime for yourself and sticking to it.

 

Be Ok Saying No.

For some, this is one of the hardest holiday priorities to put into practice. When another coworker or friend invites you for a White Elephant, don’t feel the need to say “yes” right away. Take a moment to consider if you have the time, the energy, and the funds to attend. If the answer is “no,” you can say it. Try “oh man, I already have something planned!” If you’d rather be more honest, say “I can’t make it.” No hurt feelings for them, no anxiety for you.

 

Leave Yourself Room for Error.

No one’s perfect. No matter how much you plan, things can always get a little wild during the holidays. Cut yourself some slack and self-care one of your holiday priorities. Even just a few hours a week can make all the difference to your sanity. Try to be fully present in your moments to recharge (AKA Netflix bingeing doesn’t count.) Get lost instead in an activity that promotes full presence, like doing a crossword puzzle, taking a walk, or cooking a healthy, delicious meal.

 

Make time for others and take care of yourself with these tips! To learn even more about holiday priorities from other Divas like you, join the Back to School Divas Facebook group!